Being The Best Dressed Wedding Guest
a guide to
Being The Best Dressed Wedding Guest
The invitation has arrived and you’ve RVSP’d yes but now you’re faced with a bigger question: what to wear?
We’ve done the hard work for you and created a guide to getting dressed when the wedding bells start to chime.
When it comes to picking an outfit, chances are there will be some clues about what to wear (or what not to wear) on the invitation. The date (and what season it falls in), time of day and location of the event are key. Some couples will dictate a dress code, while others leave things more open to interpretation. When in doubt, it's always a good idea to ask the couple for their opinion.
What if there is no dress code?
Even if it’s not your wedding day, attending the nuptials of loved ones is a fantastic chance to dress up and celebrate love. Weddings are significant events, and many traditions come into play, such as "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue." As a guest, it’s essential to respect the couple’s cultural or religious customs, like the rule that only the bride should wear white.
If there’s no dress code specified, you can adapt your style based on the venue and formality of the event. Guest attire can range from smart-casual to black tie, so consider these factors when planning your outfit. Be sure to check the weather forecast and think about how accessories can enhance your look! Check out our quick tips:
Take the weather into account
Come rain, hail or shine, the big day will go on. For spring and summer weddings, make sure you remember to apply SPF (especially if the location is outdoors). And for invitations that fall in autumn or winter months, let your outwear be part of your look. A great coat or the perfect pair of boots can make or break a cold-weather wedding guest ensemble.
Check the location
Is the celebration in the city or out of town? The venue can help you determine what to wear as much as the dress code – especially if the ceremony or reception is being hosted outdoors. Take your shoe choice into consideration if you will be spending time on grass, gravel or uneven ground.
Avoid wearing anything white
It goes without saying but the number one rule of being the best dressed wedding guest is to avoid upsetting the bride with your outfit choice. Stay away from white dresses or anything too flashy that will draw attention away from the happy couple. However, some modern weddings might actually ask all guests to wear white, and in this case you should follow suit.
Accessories are key
Don’t be afraid to dial up the glamour on your shoes, bags, jewellery or even headwear. This is especially true if you’ve opted for a low-key outfit in a classic colour or cut.
If you're still stuck, look no further! We have curated a series of looks with our wedding guest style edit that can help you feel your best for the upcoming event.
MANNING CARTELL wedding guest style edit
When it comes to wedding guest dressing, it's still important to stay true to your own personal style. Keep an eye on trending colours but don’t forget how striking classic silhouettes can be. Invest in pieces that have longevity in your wardrobe and then let your hair and makeup and accessories add spark to your outfit on the day.
cocktail or black tie theme
When dressing for a black-tie or cocktail-themed wedding, elegance is paramount.
It's also important to remember this is a celebration—embrace the opportunity to express your personal style while keeping it refined for the special occasion!
Dress Selection: Select a sophisticated evening gown or a stylish midi dress, ideally one that falls below the knee for an elegant look. Check for designs that feature timeless lines and flattering silhouettes, such as a fitted bodice with a flowing skirt or an asymmetrical hemline.
Colours: For a classic look, choose rich, deep colours such as navy, burgundy, or timeless black. If you’d like to incorporate a pop of colour, consider elegant shades of red and green to brighten your ensemble.
Statement Details: Look for dresses with unique details—like intricate cutouts, ruffles, or 3D textures—that add a touch of modern elegance. These elements can make your outfit stand out while keeping it refined.
Accessories: Complete your look with elegant accessories. A sleek clutch and strappy heels will elevate your outfit, while delicate jewellery can add just the right amount of sparkle without overwhelming your ensemble.
Garden & Outdoor theme
For a garden-themed or outdoor wedding, elegance harmonises with the beauty of nature. Choose a lovely floral or pastel dress that flows gracefully, ideally at a midi or maxi length, allowing you to move freely while maintaining a polished look. Light, airy fabrics enhance the romantic vibe, and don’t shy away from vibrant hues that reflect the surroundings.
Colours: For a classic look, opt for light, airy fabrics in floral or pastel hues that enhance the romantic vibe. Don’t shy away from vibrant colours that reflect the beauty of nature, such as soft pinks, greens, or blues, to brighten your ensemble.
Statement Details: Select dresses with unique details—like intricate patterns, ruffles, or light textures—that add a touch of modern elegance. These elements can make your outfit stand out while keeping it refined and in harmony with the outdoor setting.
Accessories: Complete your look with elegant accessories that complement the outdoor setting. A stylish clutch paired with comfortable mule heels or dressy flats will elevate your outfit, while delicate sea water pearl and chain jewellery adds a subtle sparkle without overpowering your style. With these thoughtful choices, you'll embody the beauty of the occasion while showcasing your personal flair!
two-piece sets
When attending a wedding, don’t feel pressured to wear a dress if it’s not your style. Opting for a chic two-piece set can be just as elegant and sophisticated. This is your chance to express your personality while still dressing appropriately for the occasion. Choose a combination that makes you feel confident and comfortable, ensuring you shine on this special day!
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Always remember that your style should reflect both the joyous occasion and your personal flair. Embrace the opportunity to celebrate love and connection, and don’t forget that comfort and confidence go hand in hand. Whether you opt for a classic look or something more adventurous, your presence adds to the magic of the day. Here’s to unforgettable moments, beautiful memories, and dancing the night away—cheers to love!